Веретенников Сергей, thank you very much for the consultation.
Things became easier in my relationship with my wife both during and after the consultation. We reached a friendly level of communication.
I no longer have those reactions where I immediately respond negatively to my wife, automatically, as the psychologist previously told us—as a result of accumulated resentment and misunderstandings. I have gained inner calm, which helps me first try to understand what is happening and why.
From my wife, I feel more understanding and warmth toward me.
We did have arguments after the consultation, but overall things became easier for us, and I can see our family healing. That makes me happy.
The consultation was very interesting for me. Outwardly, it was very similar to a psychologist’s consultation (I have experience with those), but I also noticed that something else was happening—perhaps as a result of the OM Shanti questions, perhaps because of something else from the system (I cannot say for certain). During the week following the consultation, an inner understanding and feeling awakened in me—and is still developing—that we are together, one family. Before that, I was aware that this was missing from my relationship with my wife, and it upset me greatly. Yet I also thought that since I could see and understand it, the problem lay with my wife. Fortunately, that is not the case—it is not only about my wife.
I am inspired that our relationship has begun to change. I have come to understand that not everything is lost in my family, that we can live a good family life, and that my wife is the person with whom I want such a life (although before the consultation I had thoughts of divorce and believed that nothing could be repaired).
Намасте! Где ьы я не написала,везде выдается ошибка,и у меня ничего невозможно отправить написанное.Подскажите пожалуйста,это только у меня или у всех такое?