Intensive — Exit the Tension Zone in 21 Days

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Day 7 (18.07.26)
1. 3 out of 10
2. 90%
3. I relaxed quite deeply with the help of yoga nidra.
I fell asleep instantly. My sleep was deep.
I woke up without an alarm at 4 a.m., and finally without a headache.
Since the beginning of the month, after being ill, I had been waking up every morning with heaviness and pain in my head and neck.
Actually, my condition began to improve after I started doing the practices and assignments from this Intensive. And look how interestingly it turned out—the thing that had already exhausted me
was healed during the first seven days of the Intensive✨🙏🙂(y)
 

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Day 8. Listening to the Signals of the Body
Theme of the Day
My body does not get in my way—it tells me about my state.

During the first week, you learned to notice tension, return to the present moment, calm your breathing, relax your muscles, move more freely, reduce information overload, and rest deeply.

Now the second stage begins.

We will explore what lies beneath the tension.

Sometimes responsibility hides behind hunched shoulders.
Behind heaviness in the chest—anxiety or sadness.
Behind a tense jaw—unspoken words.
Behind stiffness in the abdomen—fear or the urge to control everything.

These are not strict rules. The same sensation can have completely different causes for different people.

Today, we will not diagnose ourselves based on where tension is located.

We will simply ask the body a question:

“What are you trying to tell me?”

Task for Day EightToday you will learn to:

  • notice bodily sensations without fighting them;
  • distinguish a physical sensation from thoughts about it;
  • recognize the emotion associated with tension;
  • stay alongside an unpleasant sensation without becoming completely absorbed in it;
  • treat the body not as an opponent, but as a source of information.
Morning ObservationAfter waking, pause for a moment.

Ask yourself:

What is my body feeling right now?

Do not answer, “Good” or “Bad.”

Name the specific sensation:

  • heaviness;
  • warmth;
  • cold;
  • constriction;
  • fatigue;
  • lightness;
  • tension;
  • emptiness;
  • tingling;
  • calm.
Then ask:

Which feeling is closest to this sensation right now?

For example:

  • anxiety;
  • irritation;
  • sadness;
  • fatigue;
  • calm;
  • joy;
  • anticipation;
  • confusion.
You do not need to find the perfect answer.

Today, it is enough to begin distinguishing:

bodily sensation—emotion—thought.

Main Practice: “Body Scan”
Duration: approximately 15–20 minutes.

Lie down or sit comfortably.

If closing your eyes makes you anxious, leave them open and look at a calm object.

Take several ordinary breaths in and out.

There is no need to deliberately deepen your breathing.

Step 1. Feel the Support
Notice the parts of your body that are touching the surface:

  • feet;
  • legs;
  • pelvis;
  • back;
  • arms;
  • head.
Feel the surface supporting your weight.

Say silently:

“I do not have to hold my entire body up through my own effort alone.”

Step 2. Slowly Move Your Attention Through the BodyBegin with your feet.

Then gradually move your attention upward:

  • feet;
  • shins;
  • knees;
  • thighs;
  • pelvis;
  • abdomen;
  • lower back;
  • rib cage;
  • back;
  • palms;
  • arms;
  • shoulders;
  • neck;
  • jaw;
  • face;
  • head.
Pause briefly in each area.

Do not try to relax it.

Simply notice:

What am I feeling here?

It may be tension, warmth, cold, heaviness, movement, pulsing, or an absence of noticeable sensations.

The absence of sensation is also an observation result.

Step 3. Choose One AreaFind the area that draws your attention most strongly.

You do not have to choose the most painful place. Choose a sensation you can remain with calmly.

Describe it to yourself:

  • where it is located;
  • how large it is;
  • whether it has boundaries;
  • whether it moves or remains still;
  • whether it is warm or cold;
  • whether it is dense or soft;
  • whether it intensifies when you inhale or exhale.
For example:

“I notice a dense constriction in the upper part of my chest.”

Or:

“I feel heaviness in my shoulders.”

Do not say:

“There is something wrong with me.”

Return to a simple description of the sensation.

Step 4. Name a Possible EmotionNow gently ask:

“If this sensation is connected with an emotion, what might it be?”

Do not look for a deep explanation.

The first suitable word may be enough:

  • fear;
  • anger;
  • resentment;
  • sadness;
  • fatigue;
  • confusion;
  • loneliness;
  • guilt;
  • helplessness;
  • tense anticipation.
You can say:

“Perhaps there is some anxiety here.”

The word “perhaps” is very important.

We are not claiming that we have definitively deciphered the body. We are suggesting an option and observing the response.

Step 5. Stay Beside ItPlace your palm on this area if touch feels pleasant.

Say:

“I notice you.”

“You do not have to disappear right now.”

“I can stay with this sensation for a few breaths.”


Take five calm breathing cycles.

Do not force your breath into the painful area.

Simply stay with the sensation.

Then ask:

What has changed?

The sensation may have:

  • weakened;
  • intensified;
  • shifted;
  • become warmer;
  • changed shape;
  • remained the same.
Any response is acceptable.

The aim of the practice is not necessarily to remove the sensation, but to stop automatically running away from it or fighting it.

An Important DistinctionToday we are learning to distinguish three levels.

Sensation
For example:

“Constriction in the chest.”

Emotion
For example:

“Anxiety.”

Thought
For example:

“I am afraid that everything will go wrong tomorrow.”

These levels are connected, but they are not the same thing.

When a person mixes them together, one heavy state emerges:

“I feel bad, and I do not understand anything.”

When they separate them, clarity appears:

“There is constriction in my body. I feel anxious. There is a thought in my mind about tomorrow’s event.”

Clarity itself already slightly reduces inner tension.

A Short Practice During the Day
When you notice an unpleasant state, ask yourself three questions:

  1. What is happening in my body?
  2. What emotion am I feeling right now?
  3. What thought accompanies this emotion?
You do not need to look for a solution right away.

First, name what is happening.

For example:

“My shoulders are tense. I am irritated. I am thinking that I have to get everything done today.”

This practice takes less than a minute.

Practice: “Give the Sensation Space”
If the tension is in your chest, abdomen, or throat, imagine a little open space appearing around it.

Do not dissolve the sensation by force.

Do not push it away.

Imagine that it is no longer compressed from all sides.

Say silently:

“This sensation can be here, but it does not occupy all of me.”

You are more than your tension.

Even if one part of your body is contracted, other parts can remain calm.

Feel these simultaneously:

  • the tense area;
  • your feet;
  • your palms;
  • the space in the room.
This keeps your attention from becoming completely immersed in the unpleasant sensation.

Finding a Practice on YouTube
You can choose a body scan meditation lasting 10 to 25 minutes.

Search YouTube for: “Body scan meditation in Russian, 15 minutes”

Search YouTube for: “Mindful observation of bodily sensations”

Search YouTube for: “Meditation for accepting emotions through the body”

Search YouTube for: “Body scan meditation for beginners in Russian”

Choose a recording:

  • with a slow and calm voice;
  • without requiring you to eliminate sensations completely;
  • without frightening suggestions;
  • without claiming that a specific body part is necessarily connected with a particular trauma;
  • with the option to open your eyes and stop the practice.
Image for Day Eight
A suitable image for this day would be:

A person sits calmly with their eyes closed. One palm rests on their chest, the other on their abdomen. Several areas inside the body glow softly, symbolizing sensations and emotions. The person is not fighting them, but observing them attentively. A bright, peaceful space surrounds them.

Another option:

The silhouette of a person with soft, colorful clouds representing different emotions visible inside. Open, bright space remains around each cloud.

The main idea of the image:

“I notice my sensations, but I do not dissolve into them.”

Affirmation of the Day
I hear the signals of my body. I do not need to fear my sensations. I can observe them calmly and gently.

Repeat it three times after the main practice.

Evening Closing
Before going to sleep, give your body five minutes.

Lie down and feel:

  • your feet;
  • your abdomen;
  • your chest;
  • your shoulders;
  • your face.
Choose one area that is asking for attention.

Say:

“I notice that you are tense.”

“Today I do not need to fix you completely.”

“You can rest a little now.”


Then take several calm breaths out.

Result of Day Eight
After today, a person may be able to say:

“I have begun to distinguish bodily sensations, emotions, and thoughts more clearly.”

This is an important transition.

Previously, tension may have felt like one heavy cloud.

Now, separate elements gradually emerge within it:

sensation—emotion—thought.

When we begin to see them separately, the state becomes easier to understand.

And what becomes understandable no longer controls us quite so invisibly.

Important Note
Do not try to independently uncover difficult traumatic memories in the body.

If any of the following arise during the practice:

  • intense panic;
  • a feeling that what is happening is unreal;
  • distressing memories;
  • a sudden worsening of your condition;
  • a feeling that you are losing contact with reality,
open your eyes, stop the internal observation, and shift your attention outward.

Name several objects around you, feel your feet, and engage in an ordinary, calm activity.

Also, do not assume that every pain is a manifestation of suppressed emotions. Persistent or worsening physical pain may require a medical examination.

The body can speak the language of emotions, but sometimes pain means exactly that the body needs a doctor’s help.
 

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Day 6 (18 July 2026) Silence for the Nervous System
Overall tension: 2 out of 10
Quality of practice: 90%
Interestingly, today’s task, which was supposed to be “easier,” turned out not to be easy for me.
In the morning, when I wake up, I no longer reach for my phone first. The first thing I let into my consciousness after waking up is often either a recollection of a dream or Sadhana. In the morning, I use my phone only to measure my pulse and for the Control Pause. And then—lots of OM Shanti music. I like letting OM Shanti songs, prayers, and music be the first things I “let in.” Then the day goes “differently.”
But during the day, I had to “make an effort” to practice informational silence. I often “sin” by accompanying ordinary activities with something “useful”: audiobooks, podcasts, music, or finding out what other people are studying. But now I am increasingly drawn to Silence and value it more and more—meditating without anything else, and learning a lot from it. An insight: “Sometimes one of the most useful things is to stop demanding usefulness from every minute of your life.” And another: “As long as consciousness is continuously occupied with something, inner tension can easily go unnoticed.”
I really enjoyed the sixth day of the Intensive; I even wanted to spend the following day this way as well. I did so for most of the next day.
It was very interesting to observe: “What exactly am I letting into my consciousness, and what do I become afterward?”
 
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Namaste! I’m joining the Intensive and will try to go through it at my own pace.
Day 1 (yesterday)
Starting point.
Overall tension: 4 out of 10.
Physical: 3 out of 10.
Emotional: 2–3 out of 10 (at the moment), though it can sometimes increase.
Practice completion: 60%
Areas most prone to tension: forehead and temples—an orange spot; shoulders and the back of the neck—a crimson-red area; feet—a blue-violet spot.
Tension increases with loud sounds and prolonged periods in an uncomfortable standing or sitting position. When I do fewer practices, it intensifies by evening.
 

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“The future hasn’t arrived yet, and you’re already offended by it”—how cute!)) Well, that’s exactly how it is—I’m always worrying about everyone, so there’s tension in my soul, and as for the body… Trainings won’t help me, because some people simply don’t want to hear the voice of reason… Take my friend, for example: she’s always getting into some kind of trouble 🙈, such a provocative person), she loves arguing, especially with management, and they still put up with her for now—but that may not last… I tell her: Be like Mohini, Vishnu gave us a wonderful lesson in stalking: victory was achieved not with a sword, but with a glance; not with the thunder of weapons, but with a whisper. He didn’t clench his fists or shout threats; he didn’t speak from a position of strength, but from a position of mystery. He tossed out words like light petals—they fell beautifully, but revealed nothing essential. You don’t break through obstacles head-on; you go around them as if in a dance, where every movement 💃 is precise. Sometimes the strongest action is knowing how not to act directly, but to win while remaining invisible and achieve your goal without destroying the world—especially your own. It’s a shame she doesn’t listen to me—a strong Mars in her horoscope, but I haven’t lost hope of getting through to her someday. The main thing is that it isn’t too late. Oh, I’ve gotten a little too philosophical; I’ll breathe now, as it says above 😉
 

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Day 7 (19.07.26) Deep restoration
Sleep quality: 9 out of 10
How recovered I feel in the morning: 8 out of 10
Quality of practice: 80%
The Yoga Nidra went well with the new OM Shanti song. It lasted until midnight (it was impossible not to listen; I “convinced” myself that tomorrow I would be able to listen to it all day), but the sleep was magical.
 

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Day 9. Naming Your Feelings
Theme of the Day
I can feel an emotion without becoming that emotion entirely.

Yesterday, you learned to notice bodily signals and distinguish between:

  • a physical sensation;
  • an emotion;
  • a thought.
Today, we will work with emotions in more detail.

People often say:

“I feel bad.”

But this word can conceal entirely different states:

  • fear;
  • irritation;
  • resentment;
  • sadness;
  • confusion;
  • loneliness;
  • tiredness;
  • guilt;
  • helplessness.
As long as all of this is called simply “bad,” the state seems large, vague, and uncontrollable.

When we name the experience more precisely, a little clarity appears inside:

“I don’t just feel bad. I’m irritated and tired at the same time.”

Putting an experience into words can sometimes help reduce emotional reactivity, but it does not work the same way in every situation. So today, we do not promise to dissolve feelings instantly—we are learning to understand them.

Day Nine’s Task
Today, you will learn to:

  • notice your emotional state;
  • choose a more precise name for the feeling;
  • distinguish an emotion from a thought and an accusation;
  • determine the intensity of the emotion;
  • understand what you need right now;
  • give the feeling space without taking rash actions under its influence.
Morning Observation
After waking up, ask yourself:

“What am I feeling right now?”

Do not rush to answer with the habitual word “fine.”

Choose one or two words:

  • calm;
  • anxious;
  • joyful;
  • sad;
  • irritated;
  • lonely;
  • uncertain;
  • tired;
  • interested;
  • confused.
Then assess the intensity of the feeling:

Emotion intensity: ___ out of 10.

After that, ask:

“Where is this emotion felt in my body?”

For example:

“I feel anxiety at 5 out of 10. It feels like a tightening in my stomach.”

You do not need to change the state immediately.

Today, the first step is to name it.

Main Practice: “What Am I Feeling Right Now?”
Duration: approximately 10–15 minutes.

Sit comfortably.

Feel your feet, the support beneath your body, and take several calm breaths out.

Recall a recent situation that caused moderate tension.

Do not choose the most difficult event of your life.

For independent practice, a small everyday situation is enough:

  • an unpleasant conversation;
  • waiting for a reply;
  • a critical remark;
  • a change of plans;
  • having to hurry;
  • feeling that you were not heard;
  • accumulated tiredness.
Step 1. Name the Situation
Describe it in one sentence, using facts only.

For example:

“The person did not reply to my message.”

Or:

“I was criticized.”

Or:

“Today there were more things to do than I had expected.”

Do not add explanations yet:

“They are deliberately ignoring me.”

“No one ever respects me.”

“Everything is going wrong again.”


These are already thoughts and assumptions.

First, leave only the fact.

Step 2. Find the EmotionAsk:

“What do I feel when I remember this situation?”

To begin, you can choose a feeling from this short list:

  • fear;
  • anger;
  • sadness;
  • resentment;
  • guilt;
  • shame;
  • confusion;
  • loneliness;
  • helplessness;
  • disappointment.
Two emotions may be present at once.

For example:

“I feel irritated and anxious.”

Or:

“I feel resentment, and beneath it, sadness.”

There is no need to find the one uniquely correct name.

A word that feels closest right now will do.

Step 3. Assess the Emotion’s IntensityRate it from 0 to 10.

0— the emotion is barely noticeable.
10— the emotion is extremely strong and almost completely captures your attention.

Write or say:

“Right now I feel ______ at ___ out of 10.”

For example:

“Right now I feel irritation at 6 out of 10.”

This helps you see something important:

an emotion has a certain intensity, but it is not infinite and does not occupy your entire personality.

Step 4. Feel the Emotion in Your BodyAsk:

“Where is this feeling located in my body?”

Do not look for symbolic meaning in each part of the body.

Simply observe:

  • whether your throat tightens;
  • whether your jaw tenses;
  • whether your chest feels heavy;
  • whether your face becomes hot;
  • whether your stomach tightens;
  • whether your shoulders rise;
  • whether you want to move or, on the contrary, freeze.
Name the sensation:

“Irritation feels like heat in my face and tension in my jaw.”

Or:

“Sadness feels like heaviness in my chest.”

Step 5. Allow the Emotion to Be PresentSay:

“This emotion is present in me right now.”

Do not say:

“I am anger.”

Say:

“There is anger in me right now.”

Do not say:

“I am an anxious person.”

Say:

“There is anxiety in me right now.”

This small change in wording creates inner space between you and the experience.

The World Health Organization includes the ability to make room for difficult thoughts and feelings among the basic skills for managing stress. This does not mean agreeing with every thought or acting under the influence of every emotion.

Take several calm breaths out.

Silently say:

“I notice this feeling.”

“I do not need to get rid of it immediately.”

“I can stay with it for a little while.”


An Emotion Is Not an Order to Act
If you feel anger, it does not mean you need to start an argument immediately.

If you feel fear, it does not always mean that there is actually danger in front of you.

If you feel guilt, it does not prove that you did something wrong.

If you feel resentment, it does not mean that the other person was obliged to know all your expectations in advance.

An emotion is an important signal.

But a signal is not yet a ready-made solution.

You can leave a pause between feeling and action.

Say:

“I acknowledge my feeling, but I will choose my action a little later.”

Emotion or Thought?
Very often, people mistake a thought for a feeling.

For example:

“I feel that people do not value me.”

This is not the name of an emotion. It is a thought about other people’s behavior.

Behind it may be:

  • resentment;
  • sadness;
  • loneliness;
  • irritation;
  • insecurity.
Another example:

“I feel that everything will end badly.”

This is a prediction.

The emotion may be fear or anxiety.

Try using this simple formula:

When ______ happened, I thought ______ and felt ______.

For example:

“When I did not receive a reply, I thought I was being disregarded and felt resentment.”

This makes what is happening clearer.

What Does My Emotion Want?
Now ask:

“What do I need when I feel this?”

An emotion may point to a need:

  • for rest;
  • for safety;
  • for clarity;
  • for support;
  • for a personal boundary;
  • for an honest conversation;
  • for silence;
  • for completing a task;
  • for help;
  • for the opportunity to be alone;
  • for the opportunity to be heard.
For example:

“I feel irritated because I am tired. Right now I need rest, not an argument.”

Or:

“I feel anxious because of the uncertainty. I need more precise information.”

Or:

“I feel resentful. Perhaps I need to calmly explain to the person what is important to me.”

Not every need can be met immediately.

But it is already useful to understand what your inner state is truly asking for.

The Day’s Simple Formula
Throughout the day, use four short phrases:

Right now I feel…

In my body, this feels like…

The intensity of the feeling is … out of 10.

Right now, I may need…


Example:

“Right now I feel anxious. In my body, it feels like tension in my stomach. The intensity is 6 out of 10. Perhaps I need to stop and understand what exactly I can do.”

This practice takes less than a minute.

When It Is Difficult to Identify the Emotion
Sometimes a person cannot name anything.

Instead of a feeling, they experience:

  • emptiness;
  • numbness;
  • fog;
  • tiredness;
  • inner indifference;
  • an inexplicable tension.
Do not force yourself to look for a sophisticated psychological term.

You can say:

“Right now I feel an inner fog.”

Or:

“I do not yet understand my state, but I notice heaviness in my body.”

This is already an honest observation.

The ability to distinguish emotions develops gradually.

Finding a Practice on YouTube
You can choose one meditation lasting from 10 to 20 minutes.

Search YouTube for: “Russian meditation for accepting emotions”

Search YouTube for: “How to recognize and name your emotions”

Search YouTube for: “Safe practice for experiencing emotions”

Search YouTube for: “RAIN meditation for working with emotions in Russian”

Choose a recording:

  • with a gentle voice;
  • without requiring you to relive difficult events;
  • without claiming that an emotion must necessarily be fully released;
  • without urging you to scream, hit objects, or harm yourself;
  • with the option to stop the practice at any time.
Day Nine Image
A suitable image for this day would be:

A person sits calmly with their eyes closed. Several soft-colored spheres surround them, symbolizing different emotions: anxiety, sadness, irritation, and calm. Each sphere bears a short name for a feeling. The person observes them without being consumed by them.

Another option:

A glowing circle of emotions is in front of the person. They gently touch one part of the circle, choosing the name of their current feeling. A bright, peaceful space remains around them.

The main idea of the image:

“When I name a feeling, it becomes clearer.”

Affirmation of the Day
I acknowledge my feelings and do not judge myself for them. Every emotion comes with a message, but I choose my own actions.

Repeat it three times after the main practice.

Evening Conclusion
Before going to sleep, ask yourself:

“Which feeling accompanied me most often today?”

Then:

“What was it trying to tell me?”

And finally:

“What can I give myself right now?”

The answer can be very simple:

  • rest;
  • silence;
  • a glass of water;
  • several calm breaths out;
  • ending the correspondence;
  • a promise to return to the matter tomorrow.
You do not need to solve at night everything you felt during the day.

Sometimes it is enough to acknowledge the emotion and say:

“I noticed you. We will return to this when I have more strength.”

Result of Day Nine
After today, a person may say:

“I have become better at understanding exactly what I feel and what I need.”

An emotion without a name may be experienced as great inner tension.

Once named, it becomes more definite:

this is anxiety;
this is resentment;
this is tiredness;
this is sadness.


It may still be unpleasant.

But now the person understands what they are dealing with.

And clarity is already the first step from an automatic reaction toward a conscious choice.

Important Note
Acknowledging an emotion does not mean intensifying it, submitting to it, or justifying any behavior.

Anger does not justify aggression.

Resentment does not justify revenge.

Fear does not always require escape.

Guilt does not always prove actual wrongdoing.
 

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Day 2 (yesterday).
I liked the practices. I realized that haste is often the cause of tension: when I think I won't manage to do something on time. Multitasking as well. The phrase from Day 2's practice really resonated with and delighted me: "then choose 1 next action." Just right for me. One, not a whole bunch!
And I realized that these effective practices will be very helpful when the tension becomes overwhelming. For now, I have the time and conditions to learn them.
Thank you, Om Shanti, for the intensive!
I'm already gradually stopping blaming myself for joining later.
Namaste to all participants!!
 

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When I wake up, my body feels calm.
And the sensations are calm.
After scanning my body, I feel heaviness in my neck. I identified the emotion as fatigue.

After the evening practice, my state is calm.
Now I feel "body - emotion - thought"
 

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Thank you, OM Shanti, for giving me the opportunity to "catch up" with the current day of the Intensive.

Day 8 (20.07.26) Listening to the body's signals.
Morning observation: what is my body feeling right now?
- lightness, relaxation, calmness
(When I woke up, I felt not just lightness, but an "extraordinary," healing lightness; some kind of "magic" was happening in my body. And after several minutes of this relaxation, a strongly perceptible wave, a surge of energy, moved through my body. I could physically feel the "work" and presence of "invisible" Forces. In the evening, immediately before going to sleep, I listened to OM Shanti's new Song several times. And I made a request to the Higher Forces. I noted that my sleep was also special, light, and restorative. I am grateful to the Higher Forces and OM Shanti.)
Over the last three or four days of the Intensive, in the absence of "information silence," I noticed growing tension in the heart area. Today, during the daytime practice, I worked with this area. I identified the possible emotion as "tense anticipation." It was more difficult to identify the connecting thought.
Throughout the day, as a result of the subsequent practices, I observed and reinforced the sequence: bodily sensation - emotion - thought, learning to see them separately. In the evening, I "saw" that I "struggle" with bodily sensations more than I recognize them. And when I focus on the sensations, I become completely immersed in the emotion.
An important realization: it is possible to consciously "stay alongside an unpleasant sensation without becoming completely immersed in it." "When I begin to see the sensation, emotion, and thought separately, the state becomes clearer."

Theoretically, I understand intellectually that my body is not my enemy but my helper. But in practice, I don't really know how to relate to my body not as an opponent but as a source of information. This is an important issue for me, not only regarding everyday sensations, but above all regarding the sensations that arise during and after the Practices.

I consider the Eighth Day especially important and useful for me. I will change my approach to sensations based on the practices of this day.
 
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Day 8. Throughout the day, I catch myself thinking that I really do try to accomplish many things in one day, keeping track of the time so I can finish everything, or at least most of what I have planned. I pay attention to my posture and how I place my foot... How I look... It is all this that causes tension, due to hypervigilance. Since there is regular tension in my trapezius muscles, shoulders, and neck, apparently I am raising my shoulders... But I do not notice it in everyday life... On the contrary, I consciously control bringing my shoulder blades together and opening my chest. When I notice pain or tension, I tell myself: I allow my body to live without tension (this exercise was in the previous lessons), and at the same time I gently massage the tense area... Then the tension eases slightly, but not completely, and I still come home tired and massage myself with massage devices. Sitting at the table at home also causes tension in my shoulders... Perhaps it is sadness and loneliness... Although I do not particularly want a relationship with men. And I communicate with women regularly... It seems I am not lonely... I never get bored; I always have plenty to do, including interesting things. But so far, I cannot find any other explanation for the tension in my body...
 

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Day 10. The Letter of Release
Theme of the Day
I can move tension from my head onto paper.

Sometimes inner tension is sustained not only by events, but also by thoughts that a person keeps replaying over and over:

  • what should have been said;
  • what might have happened;
  • who acted unfairly;
  • what needs to be resolved urgently;
  • why everything turned out this way.
The mind returns to the same thoughts as if trying to finally find the perfect answer.

But sometimes an answer is not needed right now.

What is needed is simply to let the accumulated inner material out.

Today we will write.

This is not a literary exercise. You do not need to express yourself beautifully, follow rules, or show the text to anyone else.

The writing is intended only for you.

Task for Day Ten
Today you will learn to:

  • notice the thoughts that keep returning;
  • express accumulated feelings in words;
  • avoid editing yourself while writing;
  • separate inner experience from your identity;
  • finish the practice and return to the present.
Preparation
You will need:

  • several sheets of paper;
  • a pen;
  • 15–20 minutes;
  • a quiet place where you will not be interrupted.
It is better to write by hand rather than type on your phone.

While writing, there is no need to check messages, correct mistakes, or reread every sentence.

Before you begin, rate:

My tension right now: ___ out of 10.

Main Practice: “What Am I Holding Inside?”
Set a timer for 10–15 minutes.

At the top of the sheet, write:

“What have I been holding inside for too long?”

Then begin writing everything that comes to mind.

You can begin with phrases such as:

  • “I’m tired of…”
  • “I’m worried about…”
  • “I’m angry because…”
  • “It’s hard for me to admit to myself that…”
  • “I’m afraid that…”
  • “I wish I could say…”
  • “I no longer want to carry…”
  • “What puts the most tension on me is…”
Write continuously.

Do not try to be wise, kind, or spiritual.

If you are angry, write about your anger.

If you feel hurt, write about that hurt.

If you do not know what to write, write exactly that:

“I don’t know what to write. Right now I feel…”

After a few lines, your thoughts usually begin to move forward.

Important Rule
Do not send this text to anyone.

If you are writing a letter to a specific person, do not send it immediately after the practice.

Today’s goal is to express your state, not to start a new conflict.

There should be a pause between writing and having a real conversation.

Emotions have the right to be sincere.

But it is better to choose your actions when the tension has eased somewhat.

Do Not Go Too Deep
For today’s practice, choose one moderately stressful topic.

There is no need to delve into the most difficult events of your life on your own.

Suitable topics include:

  • an unpleasant conversation;
  • accumulated fatigue;
  • a work situation;
  • hurt feelings;
  • uncertainty;
  • the need to control everything;
  • the feeling that you were not heard;
  • too many responsibilities.
If you feel significantly worse while writing, stop.

Look around, feel your feet, and name several objects you can see.

The practice should create space, not break down inner doors.

Concluding the Letter
When the timer rings, do not continue writing for another hour.

End the text with three phrases:

“Now I understand that…”

“Today I can…”

“For now, I am letting the rest go.”


The second phrase should contain only one small action.

For example:

  • ask for help;
  • postpone a nonessential task;
  • have a calm conversation;
  • get some rest;
  • make an appointment with a specialist;
  • turn off your phone;
  • make no decisions until tomorrow.
Do not create a huge plan to save your life.

One real step is more useful than twenty promises.

What to Do with the Sheet
Choose one option.

Keep It
If the text contains important thoughts, fold the sheet and put it away.

You can return to it in a few days, when your emotions are calmer.

Tear It Up
If the text was needed only for release, tear the sheet into several pieces.

Do this calmly, without dramatics.

Let It Go Symbolically
You can place the sheet in an envelope or box and say:

“I no longer have to keep this in my head every minute.”

It is not recommended to burn paper indoors or use fire without safe conditions.

Symbolic release does not require a fire. Sometimes a wastebasket does an excellent job of serving as a portal to a new life.

Pause After Writing
After finishing, do not immediately turn to the news or correspondence.

Sit in silence for two or three minutes.

Notice:

  • your feet;
  • your palms;
  • your shoulders;
  • your breathing.
Take several calm breaths out.

Then rate:

My tension after writing: ___ out of 10.

Ask yourself:

“Is there a little more space inside?”

Your tension may decrease, remain the same, or temporarily increase.

Do not demand immediate relief.

Sometimes, at first, a person simply sees more clearly what previously existed as a heavy inner fog.

A Short Practice During the Day
If a thought keeps returning, write it down in one sentence.

Under it, write:

“I don’t need to solve this right now.”

Then:

“I will return to this at ______.”

Specify a concrete time:

  • in the evening;
  • tomorrow morning;
  • after the conversation;
  • on a day off.
This signals to the mind that the issue has not been forgotten, but does not need to keep spinning in your head continuously.

A Letter That Will Not Be Sent
You can also write a short letter to someone to whom you still have much left unsaid.

Begin with:

“I want to tell you what I have been holding inside for a long time…”

Write freely.

At the end, add:

“I wrote this to free up space inside me. Today I am not obligated to send these words.”

After the practice, set the letter aside for at least 24 hours.

The next day, you can decide whether to:

  • keep it;
  • rewrite it more calmly;
  • use only separate thoughts;
  • not send it at all.
Finding the Practice on YouTube
You can watch a brief explanation or choose a guided writing practice.

Search YouTube for: “Writing Practice for Releasing Emotions”

Search YouTube for: “Expressive Writing: A Psychological Practice”

Search YouTube for: “How to Write Anxious Thoughts on Paper”

Search YouTube for: “Emotion Journal Writing Practice”

There is no need to spend a long time watching other people talk about writing.

The main work begins when you close the video, take a pen, and meet your own words.

Image for Day Ten
A suitable image for this day would be:

A person sits at a table and writes by hand in a notebook. Above the pages, translucent dark lines emerge from the person’s head and turn into clear words on the paper. More light and open space appear around the person.

Another option:

An open notebook, a pen, and several lines of text. Gray clouds symbolizing accumulated thoughts and feelings rise from the pages and dissolve.

The main idea of the image:

“I move tension from my head onto paper.”

Affirmation of the Day
I have the right to express my feelings. I do not need to hold everything inside indefinitely. I create space for clarity and peace.

Repeat it three times after finishing the writing.

Evening Completion
Before bed, write three short lines:

Today I was tense because of…

Today, what helped me was…

By tomorrow, I can let go of…


Then close the notebook.

Say silently:

“That is enough for today. I do not need to continue this inner conversation all night.”

Result of Day Ten
After today, a person may say:

“I expressed some of what I had been replaying inside for a long time and saw my experiences more clearly.”

While thoughts exist only in the mind, they may seem endless.

On paper, they acquire a beginning and an end.

A person sees:

  • what exactly is troubling them;
  • what they feel;
  • what they can do;
  • and what can be left for now.
Not all problems disappear after writing.

But some of the inner burden stops wandering through the mind without form.

Sometimes a sheet of paper becomes a place where you can briefly set down what you have had to carry inside for too long.

Important Note
Do not reread the text repeatedly immediately after the practice.

Do not send emotional letters while experiencing intense irritation, hurt, or despair.

If the letter causes severe panic, distressing memories, a sense of losing control, or a sudden worsening of your condition, stop and return to grounding:

  • open your eyes;
  • feel your feet;
  • look around;
  • name several objects;
  • switch to a calm everyday activity.
 

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Day 9.
Upon waking, I feel calm. 0–10.
I completed the morning practice; I chose the situation—the need to hurry.
I’m hurrying to take a walk before sunrise; it’s cooler then.
Emotion—helplessness and irritation.
Intensity of the emotion: 5 out of 10.
I feel something unpleasant in my stomach—the emotion of irritation and helplessness.
What does this emotion want?
The emotion points to a need for clarity. I feel irritated because I need clarity and calm.
Evening practice: I realized that a feeling of irritation accompanied me during the day today.
 

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Tomorrow is a special day!
We are crossing the midpoint of the Path.


Day 11. The Flow of Calm
Theme of the Day
I stop fighting tension and allow it to gradually fade away.

Over the previous days, you learned to notice sensations, recognize emotions, and transfer accumulated experiences onto paper.

Today we will turn to qigong—a traditional Chinese system combining body position, gentle movement, breathing, and focused attention.

A recent systematic review found that qigong practice may help reduce perceived stress. However, the studies vary considerably in quality and methodology, so it is too early to draw definitive conclusions. Qigong is best used as a gentle complementary practice, not as a substitute for medical treatment or psychotherapy.

There will be no complicated routine today.

We will take one simple movement and repeat it slowly until the body, breath, and attention settle into one calm rhythm.

The Task of Day Eleven
Today you will learn to:

  • move slowly and continuously;
  • connect movement with natural breathing;
  • let go of unnecessary muscular effort;
  • keep your attention in the present moment;
  • use the image of an energy flow for inner calming;
  • end the practice in a state of composure and stillness.
Preparation
The practice will take about 10–15 minutes.

Wear loose clothing.

Stand where there is enough space around you to move your arms.

If standing is difficult, practice sitting on a stable chair.

Before beginning, assess:

My tension right now: ___ out of 10.

For a few seconds, feel your:

  • feet;
  • knees;
  • shoulders;
  • palms;
  • breathing.
Do not try to relax deliberately.

Simply notice your starting state.

Starting Position
Place your feet approximately shoulder-width apart.

Keep your knees slightly soft.

Do not squat or tense your legs.

Keep your back straight, but do not forcefully stretch it upward.

Lower your chin slightly.

Keep your shoulders relaxed.

Let your arms rest naturally at your sides.

Imagine that the crown of your head is gently reaching upward while your feet rest calmly on the ground.

You are both stable and free.

Main Practice “Raising and Lowering the Flow”
This is one movement repeated many times.

You do not need to memorize a routine.

Raising the Arms
Slowly turn your palms forward or slightly upward.

Begin smoothly raising your arms in front of you.

Keep your elbows soft.

Do not lift your shoulders along with your arms.

Raise your arms only to chest or shoulder height—as feels comfortable.

At the same time, take a calm breath in.

Imagine that, together with the movement of your palms, a gentle, pure energy rises from the space around you.

It does not burst into the body; it calmly fills it with freshness and vitality.

Lowering the Arms
Turn your palms downward.

Slowly lower your arms in front of you.

At the same time, breathe out calmly.

Imagine that all unnecessary tension moves downward:

  • from your head;
  • from your face;
  • from your shoulders;
  • from your chest;
  • from your abdomen;
  • from your arms.
It leaves through your body and enters the earth, dissolving there.

The earth knows how to receive fallen leaves, rainwater, and everything that has outlived its time. In your imagination, you can allow it to receive your excess tension as well.

Continuing the Movement
Repeat:

arms rise—inhaling;
arms lower—exhaling.


Do not make your breathing excessively deep.

Do not hold your breath.

If the movement and breathing stop matching, that is perfectly fine.

Continue moving smoothly and breathe naturally.

In qigong, gentleness matters more than perfect synchronization.

Perform the movement for 5 to 10 minutes.

What to Focus On
During the movement, observe:

  • how your feet touch the ground;
  • how the air touches your palms;
  • how your arms become lighter;
  • how your shoulders drop;
  • how your exhalation accompanies the downward movement;
  • how your body gradually finds its own rhythm.
If thoughts arise, do not stop or drive them away.

Continue moving.

Let thoughts come and go while your arms continue to rise and lower slowly.

The movement becomes a thread that brings your attention back to the present moment.

Inner Words
As you raise your arms, you can silently say:

“I accept calm.”

As you lower them:

“I release tension.”

You can use another version:

Raising:
“I am filling up.”

Lowering:
“I am freeing myself.”

Or use no words at all.

You do not need to count your breathing, repeat long affirmations, and imagine ten energy channels all at once.

One image and one movement are quite enough.

If You Sense Qi
In the qigong tradition, calm movement, breathing, and attention are believed to help organize the flow of vital energy—qi.

As you raise your arms, you can imagine gathering pure energy from the space around you.

As you lower them, imagine it passing through your body, harmonizing it, and carrying excess tension downward.

You may feel:

  • warmth in your palms;
  • tingling;
  • pulsation;
  • heaviness;
  • lightness;
  • a sensation of space between your palms.
But you may not experience any special sensations at all.

There is no need to create them by force.

The esoteric image here helps direct attention and give the practice inner meaning. Science does not yet have reliable ways to confirm the existence of qi as a distinct physical energy.

Ending the Practice
After the final lowering of your arms, do not immediately move on.

Place both palms on your lower abdomen—slightly below the navel.

In the qigong tradition, this area is called the lower dantian and is regarded as an inner center of stability and vitality.

Hold your palms there for about one minute.

Breathe naturally.

Imagine that the energy gathered during the practice does not disperse but calmly collects in the center of your body.

Silently say:

“I return to my center.”

“Inside me, it is becoming quieter.”

“I am steady and calm.”


Then lower your arms.

Feel your feet and look around you.

Observation After the Practice
Assess again:

My tension after the practice: ___ out of 10.

Notice:

  • whether your breathing has changed;
  • whether your shoulders feel freer;
  • whether your palms feel warmer;
  • whether your thoughts have slowed down;
  • whether a sense of stability has appeared;
  • whether you feel like sitting in silence.
You do not have to feel an energy flow or an unusual state.

The result may be a very small change:

your breathing became steadier, and your body a little calmer.

Modern research links the possible effects of qigong to a combination of gentle physical activity, active relaxation, focused attention, and mindful breathing.

A Short Version During the Day
When you feel tense, stand or sit in a stable position.

Perform five slow movements:

raise your arms—lower your arms.

As you raise them, silently say:

“Calm.”

As you lower them:

“I release.”

Five repetitions will take one or two minutes.

That is enough to pause and change your inner rhythm.

Practicing in Nature
If possible, practice qigong outdoors:

  • in a garden;
  • in a park;
  • near an open window;
  • on a balcony;
  • in a quiet courtyard.
Feel the air, the ground beneath your feet, and the space around you.

There is no need to seek a special “place of power.”

Any place where you can move calmly for a few minutes without worrying that passing neighbors will urgently call a spirit-exorcism expert will do.

Finding a Practice on YouTube
You can choose a short beginner session lasting 10 to 20 minutes.

Search YouTube for: “Qigong for Stress and Tension Relief for Beginners”

Search YouTube for: “Qigong Raising and Lowering the Arms with Breathing”

Search YouTube for: “Qigong to Calm the Nervous System in 10 Minutes”

Search YouTube for: “Evening Qigong for Relaxation in Russian”

Choose videos:

  • for beginners;
  • with gentle movements;
  • without a complicated routine;
  • without deep squats;
  • without intensive breathing;
  • without requiring you to stand in a strenuous position for a long time;
  • without promises to cure all illnesses through energy movement.
On this day, learning one movement is enough. You do not need to master a complete qigong routine.

Image for Day Eleven
An image suitable for this day would show:

A person standing in nature in a calm, stable posture. Their arms are smoothly rising in front of their body. A soft golden flow of light is visible between the palms and around the body. The feet are connected to the earth, the shoulders lowered, and the face calm. The image conveys smoothness, balance, and inner stillness.

Another option:

Two successive positions of the same person: the arms smoothly rise, receiving light, then lower, releasing the body from a gray cloud of tension.

The main idea:

“As I rise, I fill with energy. As I lower, I free myself.”

Affirmation of the Day
I move calmly and freely. I accept the pure energy of life and release the tension I no longer need.

Repeat it after completing the practice, with your palms on your lower abdomen.

Evening Completion
In the evening, perform the movement 5–10 times.

Do not turn it into a complicated workout.

Simply raise and lower your arms slowly.

As you raise them, say:

“I accept calm.”

As you lower them:

“I release this day.”

After the final movement, place your palms on your lower abdomen.

Stand or sit like this for about a minute.

Say:

“That is enough for today. I return to my center.”

The Result of Day Eleven
After today’s practice, a person may say:

“I felt smooth movement, breathing, and attention come together in one calm state.”

Before this, we used:

  • observation;
  • breathing;
  • relaxation;
  • walking;
  • silence;
  • writing;
  • yoga nidra.
Today, another path appeared:

calm through continuous mindful movement.

In qigong, a person does not try to defeat tension by force.

They create a different rhythm within—a slower, smoother, more integrated one.

And the old tension gradually begins to lose its power.

Important Note
The practice can be performed sitting down.

Do not raise your arms high if this causes shoulder pain.

Stop if you experience:

  • dizziness;
  • darkening vision;
  • pain;
  • pronounced shortness of breath;
  • loss of balance;
  • sudden weakness.
Do not practice prolonged breath retention.

If you have joint conditions, significant balance problems, or are recovering from surgery or injury, move only within a comfortable range and consult a doctor if necessary.

Qigong should make movement gentler.

When someone starts trying with all their might to relax correctly, ancient Chinese masters somewhere quietly sigh.
 

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Day 9 (21.07.26) Naming our feelings

Overall tension: 7 out of 10
Quality of practice completion: 100%
Awareness: Very important and meticulous work is being done during this Intensive. Learning to understand “What is my inner state really asking for?” is priceless.
Not to “think” that I “know how to deal with it,” but to actually learn how to properly deal “with myself.”
I really want to understand more precisely what exactly I am feeling and what I need.
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Day 10. I recently wrote a letter to a person who regularly disrupts my usual harmony. Yes, it really helps. I was furious about her latest interference in my life. I wrote to her in the heat of the moment)), giving her advice in the letter not to meddle with me and my children with her dictatorial views... During the first week, I kept thinking that I would type it and send it on social media. Of course, by the morning of the first day, positive thoughts came that I shouldn’t ruin the relationship since we are relatives, and I wanted to rewrite it more gently)).. But after a week, I decided to put it off again, and then the tension disappeared altogether... I didn’t throw the letter away; it is lying in a prominent place, and I haven’t reread it... Somehow, it has a calming effect on her, and I feel that I am influencing her through the letter, that something got through to her, and for now she has stopped imposing her views on me. Thank you, Om Shanti, for this topic! I would never have thought of writing a letter to myself to heal from some of my destructive patterns and situations. Sometimes sadness comes over me out of nowhere... Now I know what to do... Usually, I would sit down to meditate in order to cleanse myself... But I think the letter will help resolve many issues. 🙏
 

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Very interesting conclusions suggest themselves. Very ingenious; thank you, Teacher 🙏 🙏 🙏. I wrote the letter, but there was pain and heaviness in my heart. One point was not enough. I wrote such things that I myself am amazed. Today I reread the letter; not everything has been released. More work is needed. But I will throw the letter away. It is a big topic; apparently, a childhood pattern is rooted in me. My leg was aching this morning. I started thinking about my mother, and little by little the pain went away. I had previously read a lot about how you need to write things down on paper, but whether it was laziness or disbelief, it is impossible to say now. The important thing is that it happened now.
 

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Day 10 (22.07.26) Letter of Liberation
I wrote the letter to “myself.” To free up inner space. It was difficult and emotional to write.
Tension before writing the letter: 7 out of 10
Tension after writing the letter: 8 out of 10
Immediately after stopping the timer for the letter, I felt that the tension had seemingly even intensified. But after the Pause following the letter and after drawing the picture in my notebook, once I had thrown the letter away, the tension noticeably subsided—to 2 out of 10.
Practice completion: 90% (I did not watch the recommended videos; I did not feel like it).
Awareness: Awareness of my true right to express my feelings. I do not need to keep holding everything inside indefinitely.
The key phrase of the day for me: On paper, thoughts acquire a beginning and an end.
I am grateful for today. I am grateful to OM Shanti. I am grateful to the Higher Powers. 💫
 
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День 12. Мысль — ещё не факт
Тема дня
Я могу замечать тревожные мысли, не принимая каждую из них за истину.

В предыдущие дни Вы учились слушать тело, распознавать эмоции, выражать переживания на бумаге и возвращать внутреннее равновесие при помощи плавного движения цигун.

Сегодня мы обратимся к мыслям.

Человек может находиться в безопасной комнате, но мысленно уже переживать будущую катастрофу:

  • «Я не справлюсь».
  • «Всё обязательно пойдёт плохо».
  • «Он недоволен мной».
  • «Я должен немедленно это решить».
  • «Если я ошибусь, будет ужасно».
  • «Никому нельзя доверять».
  • «Я всегда всё порчу».
Такие мысли часто появляются автоматически. Мы не выбираем их сознательно, но тело может реагировать на них так, словно опасность уже стала реальностью.

В когнитивно-поведенческой терапии человек учится замечать бесполезные мысли, проверять их и рассматривать другие способы понимания ситуации. ВОЗ использует похожий навык — умение замечать, что трудная мысль «зацепила» внимание, а затем возвращаться к происходящему и собственным действиям.

Сегодня мы не будем заставлять себя мыслить позитивно.

Мы будем учиться мыслить точнее.

Задача двенадцатого дня
Сегодня Вы будете учиться:

  • замечать автоматическую тревожную мысль;
  • отличать факт от предположения;
  • проверять, на чём основана мысль;
  • находить более уравновешенный взгляд;
  • замечать, как изменение мысли влияет на тело и эмоции;
  • выбирать одно разумное действие вместо внутренней паники.
Утреннее наблюдение
После пробуждения обратите внимание на первые мысли о предстоящем дне.

Закончите предложение:

«Сегодня я больше всего беспокоюсь о…»

Затем запишите первую мысль, которая появляется:

«Я думаю, что…»

Например:

«Я думаю, что сегодня ничего не успею».

Не исправляйте её сразу.

Оцените, насколько Вы верите этой мысли:

Я верю этой мысли на ___ из 10.

Затем оцените напряжение:

Моё напряжение сейчас: ___ из 10.

Сегодня мы посмотрим, изменятся ли эти числа после проверки мысли.

Главная практика «Факт или прогноз?»
Выберите одну мысль, которая вызывает умеренное напряжение.

Не берите сразу самую тяжёлую тему своей жизни.

Подойдут обычные ситуации:

  • предстоящий разговор;
  • рабочая задача;
  • ожидание ответа;
  • беспокойство из-за денег;
  • страх ошибки;
  • переживание о мнении другого человека;
  • большое количество дел.
Запишите мысль одним предложением.

Например:

«Я не справлюсь с этой задачей».

Шаг 1. Что произошло на самом деле?
Опишите только наблюдаемые факты.

Например:

«Мне дали новую задачу, которую я раньше не выполнял».

Это факт.

А фраза:

«Мне дали эту задачу, потому что хотят показать мою некомпетентность»

уже содержит предположение о намерениях других людей.

Другой пример:

Факт: человек пока не ответил на сообщение.

Предположение: человек намеренно меня игнорирует.

Спросите:

«Что я точно знаю, а что только предполагаю?»

Шаг 2. Какая мысль появилась?
Запишите автоматическую мысль:

«Я думаю, что…»

Например:

  • «Я обязательно ошибусь».
  • «Он больше не хочет со мной общаться».
  • «Я должен решить всё сегодня».
  • «Если я откажу, человек обидится».
  • «Раз я волнуюсь, значит, впереди опасность».
Не осуждайте себя за эту мысль.

Она появилась не потому, что Вы слабый или недостаточно духовный человек.

Сознание часто пытается заранее предвидеть угрозу. Иногда оно делает это полезно, а иногда слишком увлекается и начинает писать сценарий фильма-катастрофы без согласования с режиссёром.

Шаг 3. Что происходит с эмоциями и телом?
Назовите эмоцию:

«Когда я верю этой мысли, я чувствую…»

Например:

  • тревогу;
  • страх;
  • раздражение;
  • вину;
  • беспомощность;
  • обиду.
Оцените её силу:

Эмоция: ___ из 10.

Затем отметьте телесную реакцию:

  • сжались плечи;
  • напряглась челюсть;
  • появилась тяжесть в груди;
  • сжался живот;
  • участилось дыхание;
  • захотелось избегать ситуации.
Так становится видно, что мысль — это не просто несколько слов. Она способна запускать целую цепочку телесных и эмоциональных реакций.

Проверка мысли
Теперь не спорьте с собой, а спокойно исследуйте мысль.

Задайте четыре вопроса.

1. Какие факты поддерживают эту мысль?
Например:

«Я действительно раньше не выполнял такую задачу».

Запишите реальные основания, если они существуют.

Не нужно убеждать себя, что проблема полностью выдумана.

2. Какие факты не поддерживают её?
Например:

  • я раньше осваивал новые задачи;
  • можно попросить объяснение;
  • у меня есть время подготовиться;
  • ошибка не обязательно означает провал;
  • пока ещё ничего плохого не произошло.
Иногда тревожная мысль видит только одну часть картины.

Наша задача — добавить то, что она пропустила.

3. Есть ли другое объяснение?
Например:

Вместо:

«Человек не отвечает, потому что рассердился»

можно предположить:

  • он занят;
  • не увидел сообщение;
  • не знает, что ответить;
  • собирается ответить позже;
  • действительно недоволен, но это пока неизвестно.
Другой взгляд не обязан быть приятным.

Он должен быть возможным и достаточно реалистичным.

4. Что я сказал бы близкому человеку?
Представьте, что с такой же мыслью к Вам пришёл дорогой человек.

Сказали бы Вы ему:

«Да, ты точно всё провалишь»?

Или ответили бы:

«Тебе тревожно, потому что задача новая. Но ты можешь начать с одного шага и попросить помощь»?

Попробуйте обратиться к себе таким же разумным и доброжелательным голосом.

Создаём уравновешенную мысль
Теперь сформулируйте новый взгляд.

Он не должен быть чрезмерно позитивным.

Не нужно заменять:

«Я всё провалю»

на:

«Я гениален и легко покорю Вселенную».

Внутренний разум вряд ли подпишет такой документ.

Более реалистичная мысль может звучать так:

«Задача новая, поэтому я волнуюсь. Я могу разобраться постепенно, задать вопросы и начать с первого этапа».

Другие примеры:

Вместо:
«Я ничего не успею».

Новый взгляд:
«Сегодня дел больше, чем времени. Я выберу самое важное, а остальное перенесу».

Вместо:
«Если человек недоволен, значит, я поступил неправильно».

Новый взгляд:
«Чужое недовольство не всегда означает мою вину. Я могу выслушать человека и затем сделать собственный вывод».

Вместо:
«Если я тревожусь, значит, случится что-то плохое».

Новый взгляд:
«Тревога показывает, что ситуация для меня важна, но не предсказывает будущее».

Вместо:
«Я обязан всё контролировать».

Новый взгляд:
«Я могу управлять своими действиями, но не всеми событиями и реакциями других людей».

Упражнение с записью ситуации, мыслей, чувств и более уравновешенного взгляда является распространённой практикой КПТ. Оно помогает распознавать бесполезные реакции и постепенно переосмысливать их.

Простая схема дня
Запомните всего пять строк:

1. Что произошло?

2. Что я подумал?

3. Что почувствовал?

4. Какие есть другие объяснения?

5. Что я могу сделать сейчас?


Пример:

Произошло: мне не ответили на сообщение.

Мысль: человек сердится и больше не хочет общаться.

Чувство: тревога — 7 из 10.

Другой взгляд: я пока не знаю причину молчания; человек может быть занят.

Действие: подождать до завтра и не отправлять ещё пять сообщений.

Повторная оценка
После создания более уравновешенной мысли снова оцените:

Насколько я верю первоначальной мысли: ___ из 10.

Моё напряжение сейчас: ___ из 10.


Не обязательно, чтобы тревога исчезла.

Например, вера в мысль может измениться с 9 до 6, а напряжение — с 8 до 5.

Это уже означает, что мысль перестала быть единственной возможной версией реальности.

Практика «Я замечаю мысль»
Некоторые мысли невозможно быстро проверить или изменить.

Тогда используйте другой подход.

Вместо:

«Я не справлюсь»

скажите:

«Я замечаю мысль, что я не справлюсь».

Вместо:

«Всё закончится плохо»

скажите:

«Моё сознание сейчас создаёт прогноз, что всё закончится плохо».

Вместо:

«Я должен всем нравиться»

скажите:

«Во мне появилась мысль, что я должен всем нравиться».

Добавление слов «я замечаю мысль» создаёт небольшое расстояние между человеком и содержанием его сознания.

Мысль остаётся, но перестаёт звучать как окончательный приговор.

Эзотерический образ «Облака сознания»
Закройте глаза и представьте чистое небо.

Каждая мысль появляется в нём как облако.

Одни облака светлые, другие тяжёлые и тёмные.

Не нужно разгонять их руками или удерживать.

Наблюдайте, как облако появляется, изменяет форму и продолжает движение.

Мысленно произнесите:

«Мысли проходят через пространство моего сознания. Но пространство больше любого облака».

Вы — не отдельная тревожная мысль.

Вы — сознание, которое способно её увидеть.

Короткая практика в течение дня
Когда заметите внутренний прогноз, остановитесь и спросите:

«Это факт или предположение?»

Затем:

«Какой более спокойный и точный взгляд возможен?»

И наконец:

«Какой один шаг я могу сделать сейчас?»

Не пытайтесь решить всю ситуацию в голове.

Один ясный шаг снижает напряжение лучше, чем двадцать кругов тревожного анализа.

Поиск практики на YouTube
Можно выбрать объяснение или короткую направляемую практику.

Найти на YouTube: «Автоматические тревожные мысли техника КПТ»

Найти на YouTube: «Как отличить мысли от фактов психология»

Найти на YouTube: «Дневник мыслей КПТ как заполнять»

Найти на YouTube: «Медитация наблюдение за мыслями облака»

Найти на YouTube: «Когнитивное расцепление я замечаю мысль»

Выберите одно короткое видео с понятным объяснением.

Сегодня важно не посмотреть пять лекций о мышлении, а проверить одну собственную мысль.

Картинка двенадцатого дня
Для этого дня подойдёт изображение:

Человек наблюдает за тёмным облаком, внутри которого написана тревожная мысль. Рядом с облаком открывается более широкое светлое пространство с несколькими возможными дорогами. Человек понимает, что первая мысль — только один вариант, а не вся реальность.

Другой вариант:

Весы. На одной чаше находится тревожная мысль, на другой — факты и более уравновешенный взгляд. Чаши постепенно приходят в равновесие.

Главная идея:

«Мысль может быть громкой, но это ещё не делает её истиной».

Аффирмация дня
Я замечаю свои мысли и спокойно проверяю их. Мне не нужно верить каждому тревожному прогнозу. Я выбираю ясность и более точный взгляд.

Повторите её три раза после основной практики.

Вечернее завершение
Перед сном вспомните одну тревожную мысль прошедшего дня.

Запишите:

Моя мысль:

Факты:

Более спокойный взгляд:

Мой следующий шаг:


Затем закройте тетрадь и произнесите:

«Я сделал всё, что мог сделать сегодня. Остальные мысли могут подождать до завтра».

Результат двенадцатого дня
После сегодняшнего дня человек может сказать:

«Я начал отличать реальность от тревожных предположений».

Не каждая неприятная мысль ошибочна.

Иногда сознание действительно замечает проблему.

Но даже тогда вместо катастрофического прогноза можно спросить:

  • что известно точно;
  • что пока неизвестно;
  • на что я способен повлиять;
  • какое действие будет разумным.
Между событием и внутренним напряжением часто находится мысль.

Когда мысль становится видимой, появляется выбор.

А вместе с выбором возвращается часть внутренней свободы.

Важное примечание
Не используйте эту практику, чтобы отрицать реальные проблемы.

Если существует настоящая опасность, насилие, серьёзное заболевание, финансовая угроза или иная объективная трудность, одного изменения мыслей недостаточно. Необходимы практические действия, помощь специалистов и поддержка окружающих.

Также не нужно превращать упражнение в бесконечный анализ.

Если Вы проверяете одну и ту же мысль десятки раз и тревога только усиливается, остановитесь, вернитесь к телу, дыханию или заземлению.

При навязчивых мыслях, тяжёлой тревоге, панических приступах или выраженном ухудшении состояния лучше обратиться к психологу, психотерапевту или врачу.

Цель практики — не доказать себе, что всё обязательно будет хорошо.

Цель — перестать считать самым страшным прогнозом единственную возможную реальность.
 

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День 3 (вчера).
Утром практически не было напряжения - 0-2 (предположила скрытое) из 10.
Днем был эпизод в общении с человеком, с которым зачастую мне бывает нелегко, что автоматически стала ускоряться речь и повышаться тон, при этом появилось и стало нарастать напряжение в висках (до 5-6 из 10).
Стала стараться дышать по секундам на 4 вдох и выдох, замедлять сознательно скорость речи и движений, стало спадать напряжение.
Качество практик сегодня 55%.
Приобрела, считаю, полезный инструмент для ситуации, которая может вырости в стресс.
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