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OSHO says...
Thousands of people have told me their problems, and so far I have not encountered a single real one among them! All problems are false—you create them because without problems you feel empty. If there are no problems, there is nothing to do, no one to fight, nowhere to go. People go from one guru to another, from one master to another, from one psychotherapist to another, from one encounter group to another, because if they do not, they feel empty, and suddenly life seems meaningless to them. You create problems so that you can feel that life is enormous work, growth, and that you have to wage a difficult struggle.
Have you ever asked yourself the most important question: do problems really exist, or do you create them yourself and have become so accustomed to them that you simply cannot do without their company—you would feel lonely without them? You are willing to be unhappy, as long as you are not empty. People cling to their unhappiness just to avoid the emptiness within themselves.
You yourself nourish your unhappiness. Look. When one problem disappears, notice how the real problem immediately finds itself another place. The situation resembles a snake shedding its old skin while always remaining the same snake.
As soon as one problem is solved, another follows. And if you look more closely, you will notice that the second problem is exactly the same kind as the previous one. Deal with it, and a third is already waiting behind it, ready to emerge.
Please look at what you are doing and what nonsense you are engaged in. First you create a problem, then you set out to find its solution. Simply observe why you create the problem. The solution to the problem lies at its very beginning, when you are just creating it—do not create it! You have no problems at all; it is enough to understand just this.
If your own problems are not enough for you, you begin thinking about humanity, about the fate of the world...—socialism, communism, and other such nonsense. You begin thinking about the world as though the whole world depended on your advice.
I am not concerned with your problems. There are millions of them, and it is completely pointless to try to solve them—for you are their creator, while you yourself remain in the shadows. I will solve your problem, and you will create a dozen new ones.
I will set your problems aside and get to you. It is the creator who must be changed. And when he changes, the problems on the periphery will disappear.
Remember well: you yourself take pleasure in cherishing your problems, which is why you create them. There are many reasons why you derive pleasure from this.
All of humanity is sick. There are fundamental motives and underlying causes for this that we overlook. When a child falls ill, he receives attention; when he is healthy, no one takes any notice of him.
Attention is energy. When someone gives you a loving look, they are giving you nourishment—etheric nourishment. Every child needs attention, but you give it to him only when he is ill, when there is some problem. And so, when a child feels a lack of attention, he will invent a problem and create it himself.
Love is the fundamental need. Just as your body is nourished by food, your soul is nourished by love. But you can receive love only when you are ill, when something happens to you; otherwise no one even thinks of giving it to you. The child learns from you and later begins creating problems too. He understands that as soon as an illness or some other problem occurs, everyone will rush to him.
Thousands of people have told me their problems, and so far I have not encountered a single real one among them! All problems are false—you create them because without problems you feel empty. If there are no problems, there is nothing to do, no one to fight, nowhere to go. People go from one guru to another, from one master to another, from one psychotherapist to another, from one encounter group to another, because if they do not, they feel empty, and suddenly life seems meaningless to them. You create problems so that you can feel that life is enormous work, growth, and that you have to wage a difficult struggle.
Have you ever asked yourself the most important question: do problems really exist, or do you create them yourself and have become so accustomed to them that you simply cannot do without their company—you would feel lonely without them? You are willing to be unhappy, as long as you are not empty. People cling to their unhappiness just to avoid the emptiness within themselves.
You yourself nourish your unhappiness. Look. When one problem disappears, notice how the real problem immediately finds itself another place. The situation resembles a snake shedding its old skin while always remaining the same snake.
As soon as one problem is solved, another follows. And if you look more closely, you will notice that the second problem is exactly the same kind as the previous one. Deal with it, and a third is already waiting behind it, ready to emerge.
Please look at what you are doing and what nonsense you are engaged in. First you create a problem, then you set out to find its solution. Simply observe why you create the problem. The solution to the problem lies at its very beginning, when you are just creating it—do not create it! You have no problems at all; it is enough to understand just this.
If your own problems are not enough for you, you begin thinking about humanity, about the fate of the world...—socialism, communism, and other such nonsense. You begin thinking about the world as though the whole world depended on your advice.
I am not concerned with your problems. There are millions of them, and it is completely pointless to try to solve them—for you are their creator, while you yourself remain in the shadows. I will solve your problem, and you will create a dozen new ones.
I will set your problems aside and get to you. It is the creator who must be changed. And when he changes, the problems on the periphery will disappear.
Remember well: you yourself take pleasure in cherishing your problems, which is why you create them. There are many reasons why you derive pleasure from this.
All of humanity is sick. There are fundamental motives and underlying causes for this that we overlook. When a child falls ill, he receives attention; when he is healthy, no one takes any notice of him.
Attention is energy. When someone gives you a loving look, they are giving you nourishment—etheric nourishment. Every child needs attention, but you give it to him only when he is ill, when there is some problem. And so, when a child feels a lack of attention, he will invent a problem and create it himself.
Love is the fundamental need. Just as your body is nourished by food, your soul is nourished by love. But you can receive love only when you are ill, when something happens to you; otherwise no one even thinks of giving it to you. The child learns from you and later begins creating problems too. He understands that as soon as an illness or some other problem occurs, everyone will rush to him.