Once there was a young man whose life unfolded under difficult circumstances. His father earned just enough to provide the family with the necessities. Consequently, everything in his life was very poor, but it was enough to survive. When the boy was fourteen, his father was dismissed from his job. Suddenly, the family did not have a morsel of food left. The young man had not yet learned anything with which he could earn money, but he still wanted to help his family. So he took to begging, which was very difficult for him, but in this way he helped his family survive. This continued for several years. When he reached the age of twenty, one of his dreams came true. He felt as though he were in a fairy tale. A family of foreigners met him, grew fond of him, and bought him a car so that, working as a taxi driver, he could support himself. Moreover, every month they sent him enough money to help him overcome the difficulties at the beginning of his new, modest career. Now he was a small entrepreneur. In one leap, he became independent. However, he could not overcome his habit. He was still begging. He still felt like the poorest among the poor. He was still afraid of hunger. He saw money as the solution to all problems. Think about it: life shapes your habits and the habits of others. Habits have a tendency to hold on tightly. Therefore, carefully watch which habits you develop. This means allowing only what is good, useful, and helpful to become a habit. Beware of bad habits; they quickly gain power over your life, and it will be difficult for you to free yourself from them when you eventually want to. At the same time, remember the poor young man if other people's bad habits trouble you: perhaps they experienced difficult circumstances in life that prevent them from changing their habits overnight, even if they wanted to. Bliss awaits you in the heavenly world, but what are you doing? You are trying by every means to cling to this world! There are even people who have themselves frozen because they suffer from an incurable disease and hope to survive in that state. All this happens only because they have become attached to their bodies and the life connected with them, and do not believe in reincarnation—in other words, in My love. The truth is that the earthly world is a testing ground of more or less difficult trials, where you learn love, willingness to sacrifice, service to your fellow human beings, truthfulness, and honesty. Believe Me, the world has no other purpose. Maya (the external world, appearance) makes you seek happiness and fulfillment on Earth and believe that you will find them. Your body alone frustrates your calculations. Through its impermanence and great susceptibility to all possible illnesses, it limits you enormously. But you have become so accustomed to it that you think you must put up with everything just so as not to lose it. What are all these considerations for? What are all these worries about your body for? The only thing that matters is that you live in prema (love), satya (truth), dharma (righteousness), shanti (peace), and ahimsa (nonviolence). Nothing else should concern you. For in every birth I give you precisely the body you are meant to have, so that you may gain your experience on Earth. And be assured: each time, the body is ideal and perfect for everyone.
Sai Baba
Sai Baba